Thursday, February 19, 2009

Saying Good Bye to a Friend

About two weeks ago I received a very sad email from my aunt and uncle. Their much loved kitty, Drew passed away. Drew had not been feeling well for about four days and numerous trips to the vet did little in the way of recovery. During the night, Drew found a safe hiding place in the loft, and passed away. Heart broken did not begin to describe their anguish.

As a devoted pet parent myself, I could sympathize with their loss. It did not matter that Drew had spent 13 years in their loving home, or that he spared them the emotional burden of having to make the hard decision to end his pain. No matter how long you have your pet; it is never long enough. I believe that in some respects, it is more difficult to lose a pet than a person because your pets never disappoint you, and sometimes people, even those you love, do.

I sent my condolences and made a donation to their local humane society in memory of Drew. I know from having lost my own pets, that with time, their pain will lessen, and fond memories with take it's place. I encouraged them to consider getting a new kitty when the time was right. While there will never be another Drewster, there is a new kitty waiting to be their friend,and they will be saving a life.

2 comments:

  1. Hey Francie, I feel honored that you sent me your blog and it appears I am the first to sign as a follower of your blogs. In as what I am sure will be many that know and have been your friend for a long time. My eldest created a web page for me on "My Space", where I have my blog. I enjoyed and was touched by "Saying good bye to a friend". I am glad your business is going well. Hopefully soon maybe you and T.J. could invite Nonnie the girls and I up to see your beautiful home in the mountains.

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  2. Hi, Francie! Welcome to the blog world!!!

    This was an extremely touching post. My eyes teared up reading it, since I lost my beloved kitties fairly recently after having them for thirteen years. You're so right that even though you know going into it that you're going to have such a limited time with them, it's never enough time and you always hope that somehow they are just going to stay around forever. It's really not fair that we get to enjoy our pets for such a short time. My heart goes out to your aunt and uncle during their time of sorrow.

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